Today I welcome G.B. Sholander of The Markey Escape Rooms to the blog. I met her many years ago in the writing world and creative families like hers are worth celebrating! After all, it’s through creativity that we achieve innovation. Thus, I encouraged her to tell me more about her loved ones. The result is the wonderful guest post below, which includes focuses on why community is important to creativity.
In our family, we value creativity. Perhaps that’s why we have writers, artists, and computer programmers in our immediate family. To keep moving forward and keep growing in these pursuits, we’ve found that community is vital. Let me explain.
In our family of four, we’re extremely lucky that we all get along. What’s more, we share common interests that bridge any age, gender, or personality differences. Theme parks, great fiction, fun art, good movies, board games, tasty tea blends, whimsical costumes – these are just some of the things we all enjoy. We find it easy to hang out together, whether traveling, working on a project, or just sitting around talking.
And because we understand each other so well, and we share many common interests and pursuits, we’re good at giving each other moral support. Each of us understands that it can take a great deal of time to create a digital illustration, a book, a program, or a website. We never berate each other for how long it takes to make something. On the contrary, we’re highly supportive.
Yes, we’re one of those creative families; two of us are in our fifties, and two of us are in our twenties. As freelancers, sometimes we make decent money, other times not so much. For us, living in community means watching out for each other. We don’t hesitate to help each other in tangible ways, including offering financial help. We also take on temporary jobs in different fields when we need to do so.
Here are examples:
Thankfully, the four of us are big believers in sharing. If we weren’t, it would be much harder for us to pursue our creative interests.
While we have wonderful friends and extended family in many different professions and vocations, we feel a special kinship for the people in our lives who also follow their passion in creative endeavors.
We’re close with individuals who sculpt displays in theme parks and shopping malls, who work in escape rooms, who write fiction, and who work in various entertainment and hospitality industries. Together we swap stories and commiserate.
We also talk about the challenges in finding work as well as that something inside that keeps propelling us forward. Sometimes we cook for each other, and we offer supportive “you can do it” words.
Sure, we’d be making more money had we pursued other occupations. But the joy we find from our unconventional paths, and the wonderful people we meet along the way, are priceless.
Does creativity seem to run in your family too? If you could pursue a creative passion full-time, what would it be?
A wonderful post about the benefits of creative people working together. There is not enough focus on the creative side of life, Christy, and without it what a horrible world we would live in.
Indeed a heart touching and wonderful post !! Thankx for sharing
It all makes sense! As a creative person, I’m living a similar life. This is a wonderful post, about a fab family of artists. :star:
Christy, thank you very much for showcasing our family in your wonderful blog, and for providing a forum to discuss creativity. A big thank you also to everyone who commented here or shared the post. Much love to each of you <3
It’s the truth. A supportive creative community Is vital!
Reblogged this on Ghostwriting Plus and commented:
A big thank you to my dear friend, the talented writer & poet Christy Birmingham, for inviting me to write a guest post on her blog, When Women Inspire. Creativity has its rewards, and a community of like-minded individuals can be one of them.
Interesting example of community living within a four-member family. One does not get to hear many such stories in the highly individualistic and competitive world of today inspite of the proverbial success in unity and failure inherent in divisiveness. The creative life of the Sholanders founded on community living is, indeed, a role model for others.
Thank you for your comment, it touched my heart!
What a fabulous collective of creatives. Great post! :) xo
Awww! I loved this one! We all need help sometimes, and this is an amazing family! It is so great that you are helping each other achieve your dreams!
Great post and what a creative family! In the end, when thinking of things that really matter, it’s all about family!
Family means so much ~ I can tell you feel that way from you comment :) Thanks Joan!
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