People always tell one another that there’s no guide to bringing up children. Well, that’s right, to an extent. You can only rely on the advice of other parents who’ve been through it and your intuition, but make your judgement the priority because every child is different. Something that worked for your friend’s child, for example, may not work for yours. That being said, there are certainly pieces of advice which are universally helpful for all human beings, and these pointers are worth consideration. Here are must-have tips to raise successful kids.
To raise successful kids, be your child’s idol.
If you want your child to do something then they say the best way to encourage them is to lead by example. Kids mimic their parents because you’re their role model. If you create one rule for yourself and another rule for them then it’s very likely that they’ll pay no attention to your demands.
Therefore, if you want your children to eat their broccoli then eat your broccoli first. If you want them to be polite to strangers then be polite to strangers. Resist the urge to swear or shout at fellow drivers, or anybody you meet whilst out with your child. They pick up on these things.
Prioritize dental health.
Of course, maintaining good health isn’t just about exercising or eating the correct food, but taking care of your body on a more simplistic level. Your kids likely already brush their teeth every morning and every evening, or they have you to answer to, but there’s no reason to stop there.
For example, get your little ones flossing. It’s an extra layer of preventative care that could help them to avoid gum problems later in life. You might even consider kids dental services for happier kids when they get checkups. Put the stereotype of the “scary dentist” to bed by turning dental hygiene from a chore into an important and easy routine.
You’ll be well on your way to raise successful kids who understand self-care and body health. You can find other practical skills to teach your kids here.
Raise successful kids: Get bedtime right.
Everybody knows that sleep is important. But you may not realize how many significant effects there are to a bad night’s sleep for your child.
Okay, you get them in bed early in the evening, and you make sure that they get at least eight hours of sleep. That’s a good start, but it isn’t all there is to a healthy sleep routine. It’s not just about the quantity of sleep but the quality of sleep that your child gets regularly.
Think about their bed, for example. Is it as supportive as it could be? A soft and comfortable bed is important. Ensure the mattress also supports your child’s posture so they don’t have aches or discomfort all day. Concentration and energy both come from a good standard of sleep as well as a long sleep.
Let them naturally find their talents.
It’s okay to sign your kids up for a martial arts class or encourage them to play a musical instrument. But you can’t force anything as a parent who wants to raise successful kids.
The reality is that your children have to discover their talents for themselves. And you would be wise to support that. If they show an interest in arts, mathematics, sports, or something else, help them to pursue that interest as far as they want to go with it.
Being supportive and patient with kids as they find their talents/purposes. This aspects are less adhered to by most parents and its outcomes are never satisfactory.
GREAT comment! You’re on point :)
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Makes good sense to me Christy… I think also parents might take a look at their own childhood.. hindsight in this case can be very useful and bringing forward the good from their own experience is helpful..As is avoiding repeating what they feel were less memorable!
Wonderful additional tips here, Sally! That is, if the parents have done some work on themselves (it’s not easy to look at our faults!). I thank you for stopping by as I know you’re so busy xx I hope you’re doing well!
True Christy… doing fine thank you .. happily writing. xx
Important factors for good parenting. I can tell you’d make a great mother some day Christy. :) xx
Important priorities, Christy.
Good solid advice, Christy – from a doddering old grandfather! LOL!
You make it sound so easy!
Spot on, C! Their health and habits enable them to be a boss someday😉 It’s a good point wherein parents shouldn’t overly control kids so that they can unleash their potential on their own😊😊😊
It’s easy to be overprotective so I get what you mean, M!! :)
Oooo I was talking to my hubby about this the other day! Have to save this for later. Thanks for sharing!!!
Awesome and hope it is useful for you and hubby, Carol!
Really useful for my future kids!😄
Thanks for sharing! ❤❤❤🙂🙂