Ease Your Anxiety With These Helpful Tips

Anxiety. The single word itself might describe the entire day for you. Anxiety is a feeling of uneasiness and fear that can linger in your mind and grow over time, zapping your life of happiness and calmness. However, there are many things you can do to combat this plague that continually affects your life. Don’t let 24 hours fall into the hands of distress when you can reduce your anxiety with these accessible tips that take only 15 minutes of your day.

Just Breathe

Take a deep breath. It sounds simple, but it is very effective. Breathing should be the first thing to do when your anxiety starts to spike. Proper diaphragmatic breathing reduces anxiety by activating the relaxation response in your body by lowering blood pressure and slowing the heart rate.

Keep your shoulders and chest area fairly relaxed and still then proceed to inhale to the count of 4, hold your breath for 2 seconds, and then exhale slowly through the mouth until the count of 4. After 6 to 8 times of repeating this technique, your anxiety levels should start to feel significantly lower. Try calm breathing at minimum twice a day and as many times as necessary. Meditating is another activity that you can perform while doing this. Meditating makes you more resilient to stress and helps you tackle your anxiety by finding and resolving the source of it.

Reduce anxiety by getting outside

Fresh air can do wonders for your anxiety. Maybe you want to rest on this bench? Photo via Pixabay, CC0 Public Domain.

Face Your Anxiety

As hard as it may be to face your anxiety, don’t run away from it. It will only bother you more. Many studies show going out to do activities in the fresh air is a healthy way to reduce anxiety and many other negative emotions. Just do anything you would normally do inside your home somewhere outside. Even if it’s just for a few minutes. It only takes as little as five minutes outside for nature to start boosting your mood. Take advantage of opportunities to visit a green space as often as possible. Eating your lunch, browsing the web on a mobile device, exercising, and meditation are all activities that you can take to the outdoors comfortably.

In addition to not isolating yourself physically, do not isolate yourself socially either. Reach out to friends and talk to others. Face to face conversation is recommended, but even phone calls or text messages are good alternatives to turn to.

Don’t keep everything bottled inside and share what’s going on. Not only will the conversation ease you and make you feel more comfortable with yourself, but others can also provide fresh perspectives for how you view things. If some matters are too personal for you to speak openly about, you still don’t have to be alone. Shockingly, owning a teddy bear can prove beneficial for this. A teddy bear can reduce anxiety by providing comfort and therapeutic effects even for an adult! Psychologists suggest to touch or hold an object associated with positive feelings and nothing does that better than a fluffy, cuddly bear.

Teddy bears can help with anxiety issues

This teddy bear might help reduce your anxiety. Photo via Pixabay, CC0 Public Domain.

Embrace It

As it’s important to face your anxiety, it is also important for you to accept it. Anxiety is just a feeling like any other. Reminding yourself that it’s an emotional reaction is the first step to accepting it. However, accepting it doesn’t mean that you have to like it or continue suffering. It’s natural and common for people to experience anxiety and learning how to control it and not letting it control you is the goal.

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52 thoughts on “Ease Your Anxiety With These Helpful Tips

  1. I love a good walk to get away from it all (2-4 hours) if I can afford the time. Of course, I love alleys, where I can find graffiti art, and hey some of it’s green. Now that it’s spring, I do route myself through parks, but it’s not so much fun in the winter.
    I own 2 Teddy Bears.

    • I went for a walk last night, so therapeutic… It was down by the water. I enjoyed reading about your experiences too in your comment here, Resa. Awww Teddy Bears are getting your love, they’re so lucky β™₯

  2. This is really great advice! I especially the last part about embrace it because for me my anxiety got a lot better once I learnt my triggers and learnt to accept it. It helps calm you down a lot. If you get anxious about your anxiety it just turns into a vicious cycle and accepting it and learning to deal with it is a much better option!

  3. Hi Christy

    I know this may sounds silly to some but when you are feeling worn out and defeated find a huge tree, lean your back into it, do your suggested breathing exercises. You will be amazed at the energy you will draw from the tree. I know years ago after hours of hiking with a backpack I would slip it off and lean into one of my giant friends… It works give it a try…

    Hugs from Alberta

  4. β€œTo hear the phrase “our only hope” always makes one anxious, because it means that if the only hope doesn’t work, there is nothing left.”

  5. Another breathing exercise:-
    1. With every exhale let your body relax and soften.
    2. After a while imagine a grey wall in your mind upon which all thoughts and images appear. With every exhale let the wall collapse until your mind is tranquil.
    3. Then, let every exhale fall out of your body as a sigh of relief. Continue until calm.
    4. Sometimes you might wonder at what triggered the nervous state. Sometimes it is something that seems quite innocuous but touches a nerve.

    The antidote for severe anxiety is sheer bloody-minded defiance but handle with care. For example; “How dare this/that /he/she do this to me. I won’t stand for it.” Again handle with care. πŸ™‚

    • Thanks Graham. You’ve laid out this breathing exercise well for us. A great addition to the post! I’m going to have tags made up to wear around our necks that say “handle with care” πŸ˜‰

  6. I think it was a smart idea to pick anxiety because anxiety is like a termite. It eats you up before you even come to know of it.
    so thanks a lot for adressing this issue.

  7. We had just gone to bed when the police notified us our middle son had died. To this day, I hate bedtime and get very anxious as the time nears. My youngest son saw a stuffed elephant at the airport on his way home from college after his brother’s death and brought it home to me. It not only helped me get through the funeral, but I slept with it every night for several years. Now I only do that if I am having a particularly rough night. Elephants work, too!

  8. NIce one dear Christy… You make some valuable points over here—- I agree with you…
    And yes: I have certain stuffed teddy bear I like to cuddle … and even squeeze when I am feeling worried or needing to “reload” … Ha!… ⭐ 🐻 (His name is Charlie BTW, but I guess you have already guessed it!) Sending much love. Have a great new week! xx πŸ˜€

    • Awww ❀ I thought of Charlie with this post… However did you know… I think a cutie teddy like that would do wonders for you ~ And he traveled so far to reach you, from my mind to yours πŸ™‚ HUGS

  9. Another wonderful self-help post Christy. Breathing in when in stress mode is a great help. I do it a lot, lol, deep breaths really do help calm the whole nervous system. In those stressful moments I remind myself to breathe and usually notice how much higher my shoulders are with tension. We must keep check on our bodies sometimes to reboot ourselves. πŸ™‚ xoxo ❀

    • I like what you say about the “reboot” of ourselves, Debby. The reminder to breathe is one I do too, especially when I’m writing as I often take shallow breaths rather than deeper ones. I think I get distracted! xxoo (I like you calling me “sweet gal” by the way!)

      • I do the same. I think we all forget to breathe in properly most of the time. Imagine that, we take oxygen for granted! Lol, yes, deep breaths my friend. And glad you like my pet name for you because that’s just the way I see you sweet gal. ❀

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