Common Leg Hang Ups Most Women Have

Untoned legs make some women self-conscious

Do you have any of these common leg hang ups? Pexels, CC0 License.

Every woman has her favorite parts of her own body. But she will also have some areas that she isn’t quite so keen on. For most women, it’s the legs that cause them feelings of self-consciousness. And that is normally because there are a few different problems they experience with them. Here are some very common leg hang ups that most women have, and what you can do about them. Continue reading

Family Options For Single Women

Not everyone is lucky in love, and some women end up reaching their late thirties still single. There’s nothing wrong with this, of course, and the majority of older single women are very happy with their lives and relationship status. However, the question about children can often weight on their minds.

Female fertility starts to drop off over the age of forty. Past this age, it can be very difficult to conceive naturally. So, there is no wonder that many older single women start to consider raising a child on their own while they are still able to conceive. As they don’t have a partner, though, they need to think about their options. Here are some of the best.

Mom, child, and happiness

Single women have several conception options. Here are the top ones. Pixabay image, free for commercial use.

Sperm Donation

Lots of single women consider finding a sperm donor. There are various ways you can go about this, but the most common is to sign up to an agency that will pair you up with potential anonymous donors. You then get a list of each donor’s’ personality traits and physical characterizations and can then choose one to fertilize your eggs with. Lots of women like this option as the sperm donor is completely anonymous and doesn’t have to be a part of the child’s life. Continue reading

It’s Your Birth, You Can Scream If You Want To

Pregnancy and what's right for your birth

You’re growing a child within you and other people may think they have the right to decide what’s right for him or her. Flickr, CC BY-SA 2.0.

Women have been told what to do with their bodies for a long time. Once, we were but vessels for a man’s child (preferably a boy because, well, you know…). Of course, things have come a long way since then. Women got the vote, and with it, a voice with which to be heard. But, when it comes to pregnancy, the chances are that a lot of people will still try to tell you what to do.

Something strange happens when you’re growing a child. People think they have a right to you, so long as they have that child’s best interests at heart. And, yes, the child is the priority. But let’s not forget that your needs should come into play as well. Your birth, therefore, should be down to no one but you. Instead of listening to the opinions you’ll hear, stick to what you know is best. To help, here are a few ways to ensure your birth is right for you.

Popular Isn’t Always Best

A lot of mothers never understand the choices available to them. Everyone else goes into hospital, so they do the same. Most people choose a bed birth, so they disregard water or interactive options. But, it’s important to bear in mind that what’s popular may not be best for you.

This woman had a water birth

Water is an alternative to a bed birth that you may consider. Flickr, CC BY 2.0.

You may not want your child born in a sterile, disinfected hospital. Is that the first place you want them to see? Yet, the suggestion of giving birth away from medical professionals is enough to make many mothers quake. Why? Because it’s not the norm! In truth, there’s no reason a home birth can’t run smooth. There are, of course, risks. But, there’s no reason this can’t work if you develop a proper plan with a medical professional. An obstetrician like Max Izbicki, who specializes in pregnancy planning, will be able to put your mind at ease about any doubts. Together, you can also ensure you have an emergency plan in place should you need one.

To Scream Or Not To Scream?

It’s also worth considering whether you want a silent birth or not. Again, this is a decision only you can make, and there are pros and cons to both sides of the argument. Silent birth mothers claim that they don’t want their child entering the world to cries. And, that does make some sense. But, that doesn’t mean your child will be traumatized if you do choose to make noise throughout. Birth is so traumatic for the baby that they forget everything, anyway. So, if you feel making noise would help you, don’t hesitate to do so.

Accept That Plans Change

No matter what pregnancy plans you make, it’s also important to accept that plans change. A successful birth is about taking care of you and baby, no matter what. If you don’t feel comfortable at home, make arrangements to go to a hospital. If you planned to be silent but feel the need to scream, just do it!