A parent’s worst nightmare: your child getting injured, whether it is while doing sports or otherwise. Photo by Ben Hershey, via Unsplash.
When your child gets injured, it can be heartbreaking to see them in pain, and you will more than likely feel completely helpless. This is a completely natural thing, and while you will want to do everything you can to ensure they are comfortable, you need to understand that you can’t do everything to help them.
There is nothing more harrowing than suffering a serious injury that leaves you, or a loved one, with life-long injuries. In the space of a moment, a person’s life is turned upside down, long-term injuries are sustained, and usually, it’s due to avoidable errors. This thought and the many that will follow can leave people searching for answers that are not there. While it will be impossible for another person to understand what you’re going through, and you may feel utterly alone, it’s important to remember that other people have made it through to a happier, more contented place on the other side – and so can you.
Here are some coping mechanisms if you suffer a long-term injury. Pixabay, CC0 Public Domain.
To suddenly lose an ability that you’ve had all your life is similar to losing a loved one. As such, people who acquire a disability often experience the same ‘stages of grief’ people go through when they are grieving (see them at https://grief.com/the-five-stages-of-grief/). You will be in denial, you’ll be angry, you’ll be depressed: but ultimately, you will accept. But you can’t rush this. It’ll take time to acquire the level of peace you need to move forward.
When you reach the acceptance stage, life won’t suddenly become all rosy. But it will be real, and when it’s real, you can start making plans for the future, how you’ll adapt to your new circumstances. If your accident was the fault of someone else, you could get closure on the incident that led to the injury, as well as financial compensation, from websites like www.mbpersonalinjurylaw.com. With the ‘accident’ part behind you, you’ll be able to figure out the next stage of your life, adjusting your goals, dreams, and family life to your condition.
Your friends and family will be on hand to give you all the support you need, but even with all the will in the world, they can only do so much. You’ll feel isolated and alone, thinking that nobody else understands what you’re going through. But there are many other people out there who will be suffering from the same thing you’re suffering from, and they’ll be able to offer guidance, advice, and support that nobody else can. Get involved in these communities: they will be invaluable on your march to living a fulfilling life.
Humans are adaptable, resilient creatures by design. You’re entering a new phase of your life, and it’ll involve learning new skills, new sources of happiness, and a new role within your household and the wider community. Be patient, and work hard: just because you’re disabled or otherwise impaired doesn’t mean you have nothing to offer.
Take a look at https://successstory.com/inspiration/10-best-successful-personalities-with-disabilities: History is littered with people who have overcome significant obstacles to achieve greatness. The true test of a character is not the setbacks they experience, but the way in which they respond to those setbacks. While at times thing will feel bleak, never forget that things can always improve if we apply ourselves.
